Look at me: I ve got a case of body language, Freddie Mercury
Can you flirt with body language? It is scientifically proven that in human communication 55% of information is passed with the aid of gestures and mimics, compared to only 7% which is passed through pure meaning of words. Somewhere in between (35%) is communication with the aid of intonation and pace of a speech. Is it yet another corroboration of Darwinism? Perhaps, but this is not a subject of this article. The subject is: how can we attract another person with the body language? What we have to do, so it will be just like in this old song of the Queen: Look at me
Follow the eyes. During business conversation we usually fix our eyesight on the left eye of another person, then transfer it to the space between the eyes, then fix it on the right eye, and so on in a cycle. You cant physically look straight into persons eyes, but, if you follow this order you will make an impression that you do. When we are talking with friends, the path is a bit different, it is actually wider. Our eyesight stops below the eye level of a person, then it moves along a triangle, which includes nose and mouth.
When we are flirting, especially with someone we are seeing for the first time, the area of our eye scan gets even bigger. The more our sexual interest to the person, the more actively we focus on her (his) lips. Likewise, if the person you are talking to cannot lift her (his) eyes from your lips, while you are chatting on how you first time turned to the idea of dating online (or about your recent trip to Guatemala) rest assured: this person is already kissing your lips in her(his) imagination. Thinking this way is equal to wanting.
Monkey me, baby. Can body language reveal any difference between light flirt and strong sexual attraction? Well, if the feelings are really strong, you will tend to mimic the object of your passion. This comes from some indiscernible depths of our instincts, although, on the surface the message seem like saying that we have a lot in common with that person. Now, when you know it, you can conscientiously use this, however, be moderate: total copycatting can be read as a mockery (especially if you indiscreetly reproducing all his or her features, good and bad). When you are following your protagonist always observe at least one minute pause before making your turn.
Move your eyebrows. Did you know that if you lift your eyebrows when you meet a person for the first time it will be a sign of friendliness toward that person. If the feeling is mutual: you will get the same up-down motion of eyebrows in response. It looks funny from the side, especially if one of you has bushy eyebrows, it will look as if one cannot see the other clearly through them. But this is one of the oldest ways of winning sympathy (who knows how many thousands of generations of cave men used this trick before actual language was invented)? Now, when you know, you can use it!
Where the eyes rest. Watching another person movements (hands and feet) is a general sign of an interest. Seem like a trivial notion, but it is one of the strongest statements of body language. If this person (whom you were watching) notices and moves towards you: the interest is mutual. This is a moment when the body language usually turns into a spoken one!
Wink me! If you want to reach an affinity with someone: wink to this person. Do this several times, just as much as you can, but not overdo because you dont want to make an impression that you have developed an eye tick. If you are getting a wink back, then the feelings are mutual, now it is time to talk. So, now you know why Match and some other online dating sites are using wink as a sign of an interest. - 16759
Can you flirt with body language? It is scientifically proven that in human communication 55% of information is passed with the aid of gestures and mimics, compared to only 7% which is passed through pure meaning of words. Somewhere in between (35%) is communication with the aid of intonation and pace of a speech. Is it yet another corroboration of Darwinism? Perhaps, but this is not a subject of this article. The subject is: how can we attract another person with the body language? What we have to do, so it will be just like in this old song of the Queen: Look at me
Follow the eyes. During business conversation we usually fix our eyesight on the left eye of another person, then transfer it to the space between the eyes, then fix it on the right eye, and so on in a cycle. You cant physically look straight into persons eyes, but, if you follow this order you will make an impression that you do. When we are talking with friends, the path is a bit different, it is actually wider. Our eyesight stops below the eye level of a person, then it moves along a triangle, which includes nose and mouth.
When we are flirting, especially with someone we are seeing for the first time, the area of our eye scan gets even bigger. The more our sexual interest to the person, the more actively we focus on her (his) lips. Likewise, if the person you are talking to cannot lift her (his) eyes from your lips, while you are chatting on how you first time turned to the idea of dating online (or about your recent trip to Guatemala) rest assured: this person is already kissing your lips in her(his) imagination. Thinking this way is equal to wanting.
Monkey me, baby. Can body language reveal any difference between light flirt and strong sexual attraction? Well, if the feelings are really strong, you will tend to mimic the object of your passion. This comes from some indiscernible depths of our instincts, although, on the surface the message seem like saying that we have a lot in common with that person. Now, when you know it, you can conscientiously use this, however, be moderate: total copycatting can be read as a mockery (especially if you indiscreetly reproducing all his or her features, good and bad). When you are following your protagonist always observe at least one minute pause before making your turn.
Move your eyebrows. Did you know that if you lift your eyebrows when you meet a person for the first time it will be a sign of friendliness toward that person. If the feeling is mutual: you will get the same up-down motion of eyebrows in response. It looks funny from the side, especially if one of you has bushy eyebrows, it will look as if one cannot see the other clearly through them. But this is one of the oldest ways of winning sympathy (who knows how many thousands of generations of cave men used this trick before actual language was invented)? Now, when you know, you can use it!
Where the eyes rest. Watching another person movements (hands and feet) is a general sign of an interest. Seem like a trivial notion, but it is one of the strongest statements of body language. If this person (whom you were watching) notices and moves towards you: the interest is mutual. This is a moment when the body language usually turns into a spoken one!
Wink me! If you want to reach an affinity with someone: wink to this person. Do this several times, just as much as you can, but not overdo because you dont want to make an impression that you have developed an eye tick. If you are getting a wink back, then the feelings are mutual, now it is time to talk. So, now you know why Match and some other online dating sites are using wink as a sign of an interest. - 16759
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