Or should I bash his head in instead? That's a question a lot of women ask themselves after a breakup.
Usually they don't mean to cause any real physical harm, but it is an understandable emotion, because let's be honest: Guys can be such a terrible pain in the backside.
And then after you broke up with him, (or he broke up with you, which ever is the case) it's still you that's left thinking if you should take your ex boyfriend back or not.
Watch out if your boyfriend broke up with you, and then later wants you back.
It could be that he is just trying to get you to have sex with him again, so really make sure that's not the case before you take an ex boyfriend back!
It is very probable that you still have some physical attraction to him as well. After all he used to be your boyfriend for a reason, right? This makes it difficult for girls to resist the charms of their ex boyfriend, and even makes them wonder if they should get back together with him.
It is dangerous to give a general advice here. A lot of people will tell you: "If he cheated on you, get rid of him!" That sounds like a solid advice, but it is not always right. Every single situation is different, and you have to consider the circumstances.
An ex boyfriend who has cheated on you has a very small chance of ever becoming a trustworthy partner (to you at least). So unless you are really sure that he changed, It would probably be a good idea to stay away from cheating exes.
If you want to get back together with your ex boyfriend, but you don't want things to end up like they did the last time, it would be smart to read a decent manual on how you can change his behavior. There is a lot of knowledge available about male psychology. Use this knowledge to make sure things go different this time!
There are some very good, psychological courses out there on how to get an ex boyfriend back, and change the dynamics of the relationship in the process.
Most of those are aimed at girls who are having difficulty getting their ex boyfriend back. But they can just as well be of major importance to girls who know they can get their ex boyfriend back, but want to learn how to get him back on their own terms. - 16759
Usually they don't mean to cause any real physical harm, but it is an understandable emotion, because let's be honest: Guys can be such a terrible pain in the backside.
And then after you broke up with him, (or he broke up with you, which ever is the case) it's still you that's left thinking if you should take your ex boyfriend back or not.
Watch out if your boyfriend broke up with you, and then later wants you back.
It could be that he is just trying to get you to have sex with him again, so really make sure that's not the case before you take an ex boyfriend back!
It is very probable that you still have some physical attraction to him as well. After all he used to be your boyfriend for a reason, right? This makes it difficult for girls to resist the charms of their ex boyfriend, and even makes them wonder if they should get back together with him.
It is dangerous to give a general advice here. A lot of people will tell you: "If he cheated on you, get rid of him!" That sounds like a solid advice, but it is not always right. Every single situation is different, and you have to consider the circumstances.
An ex boyfriend who has cheated on you has a very small chance of ever becoming a trustworthy partner (to you at least). So unless you are really sure that he changed, It would probably be a good idea to stay away from cheating exes.
If you want to get back together with your ex boyfriend, but you don't want things to end up like they did the last time, it would be smart to read a decent manual on how you can change his behavior. There is a lot of knowledge available about male psychology. Use this knowledge to make sure things go different this time!
There are some very good, psychological courses out there on how to get an ex boyfriend back, and change the dynamics of the relationship in the process.
Most of those are aimed at girls who are having difficulty getting their ex boyfriend back. But they can just as well be of major importance to girls who know they can get their ex boyfriend back, but want to learn how to get him back on their own terms. - 16759
About the Author:
Mariah Tames is a psychology master, specialized in relationship problems. Read some more about her methods for how to get an ex boyfriend back on her site, and feel free to share your opinion!
