Part 1: Long-term relationship (searching for a wife)
Your photo. Your latest snapshot in a suit from the office neither your semi-naked body planted into sand on a beach will not do best work for you here, assuming that you are looking for a lifelong relationship. The best approach is to present yourself in a quiet, homey background, in armchair, with a grey Chihuahua sitting on your lap. If you got no pets, just borrow one for occasion, or post a close-shot of your face with your best smile. Note, even your very best picture with past girlfriend sitting on your lap, will not be a good substitute for a pet picture.
Words. You may be fond of your hardworking habits or your past victories with women, but those are the least things you want to show in your profile. She will not be attracted to you if you will tell her that you are here because you are a tired workaholic or, even worse, tired womanizer. Make your text neat and to the point, describe only the major features of your character, your interests in life and desires, the rest must be left for a chat with interested party.
Enticement. You know what kind of man you are and what kind of woman you need: so your profile should carry a special message which will give her an idea on what will be her life with you. For example Our honeymoon trip we will spend in Madrid, we will see the treasures of Prado and drink the adrenaline of corrida! Of course, if you are looking for an environmentalist, set the bullfight aside, and tell her A pair of good hiking boots, backpack, light tent and mountain trail are waiting for us: have you ever seen a sunrise when you are above the clouds? Or, last example: My dream is a big house at the oceanfront filled with love, happiness and children. I need you this dream to come true. She should get your message.
Part 2: Flirt and brief romance (looking for a good time)
Your photo The purpose of your profile is to tell her that you are kind, fun-loving and joy-spreading person, that you will not load her with your problems and all that she will get from you is one or two weeks of a good time. Every picture confirming this statement will work for you. Any combination of you and a symbol of good time, such as you leaning on a limo, driving red Viper, straddling glittering chopper, getting tan on Ipanema beach, opening bottle of Dom Perignon, etc., or just giving your best smile to everyone, will suffice.
Words You are not looking for a wife, so she should not hear about the depths of your personal life. However, by all means you should not tell her that you are merely seeking a partner for intimacy. She would not like that. Women tend to seek some degree of real emotion in any relationship, even in a very short-lived one, where men could see nothing, but mere a physical thing.
Bait. It is a call for romance, so you have to be romantic. Promise (and give her) beautiful sunsets by the ocean and coffee in bed in the morning, good time without pledges and mutual obligations, and she will be OK with the rest. There will be no immaterialized promises, no hard feelings or broken hearts, so when the time will come, you will depart graciously from this romance and you both will move on to the next one.
Good luck. - 16759
Your photo. Your latest snapshot in a suit from the office neither your semi-naked body planted into sand on a beach will not do best work for you here, assuming that you are looking for a lifelong relationship. The best approach is to present yourself in a quiet, homey background, in armchair, with a grey Chihuahua sitting on your lap. If you got no pets, just borrow one for occasion, or post a close-shot of your face with your best smile. Note, even your very best picture with past girlfriend sitting on your lap, will not be a good substitute for a pet picture.
Words. You may be fond of your hardworking habits or your past victories with women, but those are the least things you want to show in your profile. She will not be attracted to you if you will tell her that you are here because you are a tired workaholic or, even worse, tired womanizer. Make your text neat and to the point, describe only the major features of your character, your interests in life and desires, the rest must be left for a chat with interested party.
Enticement. You know what kind of man you are and what kind of woman you need: so your profile should carry a special message which will give her an idea on what will be her life with you. For example Our honeymoon trip we will spend in Madrid, we will see the treasures of Prado and drink the adrenaline of corrida! Of course, if you are looking for an environmentalist, set the bullfight aside, and tell her A pair of good hiking boots, backpack, light tent and mountain trail are waiting for us: have you ever seen a sunrise when you are above the clouds? Or, last example: My dream is a big house at the oceanfront filled with love, happiness and children. I need you this dream to come true. She should get your message.
Part 2: Flirt and brief romance (looking for a good time)
Your photo The purpose of your profile is to tell her that you are kind, fun-loving and joy-spreading person, that you will not load her with your problems and all that she will get from you is one or two weeks of a good time. Every picture confirming this statement will work for you. Any combination of you and a symbol of good time, such as you leaning on a limo, driving red Viper, straddling glittering chopper, getting tan on Ipanema beach, opening bottle of Dom Perignon, etc., or just giving your best smile to everyone, will suffice.
Words You are not looking for a wife, so she should not hear about the depths of your personal life. However, by all means you should not tell her that you are merely seeking a partner for intimacy. She would not like that. Women tend to seek some degree of real emotion in any relationship, even in a very short-lived one, where men could see nothing, but mere a physical thing.
Bait. It is a call for romance, so you have to be romantic. Promise (and give her) beautiful sunsets by the ocean and coffee in bed in the morning, good time without pledges and mutual obligations, and she will be OK with the rest. There will be no immaterialized promises, no hard feelings or broken hearts, so when the time will come, you will depart graciously from this romance and you both will move on to the next one.
Good luck. - 16759
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